• How to Address Your Wedding Invitation Envelopes – Part 1

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    As a stationery designer, I am always here to answer questions and educate brides on invitation etiquette. I’m hoping that this post helps answer the biggest questions about how to properly address your wedding invitation envelopes so that when the time comes to get your guest list together, things will be easy-peasy! I’ll go over address and state abbreviations, writing out your guest’s names, and how to properly use inner envelopes if you choose to incorporate those into your wedding suite.

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    When it comes to getting your guest list together, formality is key. Wedding invitations are not just any old invitation, they are your wedding invitation, and probably the most expensive invitation you will ever mail. Even if it is a backyard wedding, you should still write out the address the properly: no abbreviations on the address should be printed on the envelopes. All words such as “Street,” or “Boulevard” are spelled out. State names may be written in full or use the two-letter postal code abbreviation.

    Here’s a list of the most common abbreviations used in addresses and the correct way to spell them out.

    Street Abbreviations


    State names may be written in full or use the two-letter postal code abbreviation.

    State Abbreviations



    To address the envelopes using proper etiquette, you want to use your guest’s proper names on the envelopes. Example: “Bob” should be written out as “Robert”, and “Patty” should be written out at “Patricia”. Unless your guest’s never go by their formal names, you should try to use the formal name over any nick names or shortened names.




    The etiquette guide below is from The Emily Post Institute

    • The outer envelope is addressed conventionally using titles, first, (middle), and last names. Middle initials aren’t used, so either write out the middle name or omit it.
    • Titles are abbreviated (Mr., Mrs., Ms., Dr.)

    To roommates residing at the same address
    An invitation to two people residing at the same address is addressed with both names connected by “and.” Use one or two lines, depending on length.

    Example: Mr. Timothy Harris and Miss Stephanie Jones

    To an unmarried couple living together

    An invitation to an unmarried couple living together is addressed with both names connected by “and.” Use one or two lines, depending on length.

    Example: Mr. Robert McCarthy and Miss Katherine Wilson

    To a married couple
    Invitations are always addressed to both members of a married couple, even though the bride may know only one or knows that only one will attend.

    Example: Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
    Mr. Robert and Mrs. Kimberly Smith

    To a married woman doctor or two married doctors
    If the woman uses her husband’s name socially, the address is “Dr. Barbara and Mr. James Werner.” If she uses her maiden name both professionally and socially, it is “Dr. Barbara Hanson and Mr. James Werner.” If the husband is also a doctor, the address is either “The Drs. Werner” or “Drs. Barbara and Robert Werner.”

    How to add “and Guest”
    Some believe that it is impersonal to address the outer envelope as “Mr. James Smith and Guest,” but I think that it is just fine to include the words “and Guest” on the envelope. I’ll explain below how to use the two envelope method to avoid placing “and Guest” on the outer envelope.

    Example: Mr. James Smith and Guest

    How to send an invitation to a family
    Generally, an invitation to parents and children is addressed to the parents, but you may include “and Family” or list the child’s name under the parent’s names.


    Mr. and Mrs. James Arthur Darling
    and Family
    Mr. and Mrs. James Arthur Darling
    Sarah Darling
    Adam Darling




    Some believe that it is impersonal to address the outer envelope as “Mr. James Smith and Guest,” or to list “and Family” under the parents names, so the two envelope system works well. Also, if you are inviting only certain members of a household you can easily list the invited members names on the inner envelope to avoid confusion as to exactly who is invited. Two envelopes, of matching or different colors, are used. The inner envelope is an un-gummed or unsealed envelope that holds the invitation, and then is placed in the outer envelope so that when the flap is lifted, the name(s) of the guest(s) is visible. The outer envelope is the one that is sealed for mailing and has the mailing address on it.

    Example Outer: Mr. James Smith
    Example Inner: Mr. James Smith and Guest
    Example Outer: Mr. and Mrs. Angela Holmes
    Example Inner: Mr. and Mrs. Angela Holmes, Sarah Holmes, Ashley Holmes

    It’s also fine to write familiar names for close family:

    Example Outer: Mr. and Mrs. Angela Holmes
    Example Inner: Uncle Bill and Aunt Angela



    Thanks for reading, friend! I hope this article helps answer questions you may have about how to go about getting your guest list together. If you ever have any additional questions, please feel free to email me at

    In part two I’ll go over different methods of actually getting your guest’s addresses onto the envelopes by explaining different printing and calligraphy methods. Subscribe to my mailing list so you don’t miss it!



  • Greeting Cards


    Well, here’s the announcement I was so excited for! Greeting cards are now available for easy purchase in my shop! Shop Now!

    Soft watercolor florals printed on premium stock ready to brighten someone’s day. Who doesn’t love getting a real card in the mail? I know I do! I had greeting cards at the bridal shows and they were received really well. Many people asked if they could buy them online, and now you can!

    My email subscribers got a sneak peek yesterday along with a coupon code for discount shopping. If you don’t want to miss out on the next offer or announcement, be sure to sign up! 

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  • Burgundy + Gold Winter Inspiration

    It was a super cold day (10 degrees!) in early January when Britani Edwards and W Rentals and Events planned this gorgeous winter inspirational styled shoot. The location was in Bridgeport, WV on the Bel Meadow golf course which was covered with a nice layer of snow and frozen water! Our models were perfect for the look and they were such troopers for braving the cold! If you are planning a winter wedding, please read on!

    Photographer: Britani Edwards Photography
    Event Planner: W Rentals and Events
    Florist: Main Street Shoppes/Perennial Floral
    Stationery: Paper Hearts Invitations
    Cake: Samantha Koreski
    Jewelry: Adorn Jewel of June
    Hair/Makeup: Beauty by Kaleigh
    Modes: Emily Domico and Jake Kelly



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  • Paper Hearts Rebrand

    After 10 years of being in the graphic design industry, the hardest person to design for is, hands down, MYSELF! I design something for myself and then I completely throw it out the window because I never feel it is good enough. I guess being picky is a blessing and a curse because it pushes me to become a better designer but can also drive me crazy! When I started my journey in 2013 with Paper Hearts, I designed my branding to incorporate two things that I love, hearts and the color pink. Today, I am revealing the new look of Paper Hearts Invitations. It still has the very same heart I started with back then and the color pink, but it matches my design style a little more. Watercolor florals and script fonts are what I love to incorporate for my brides so I wanted to match my branding a little more to my everyday design style. I wanted this logo to be a little more “ME” and I am so excited to share it with you guys!

    Let’s take a look back and my previous logos.logo2013

    And here is the new look for Paper Hearts Invitations! Let me know what you think in the comments below.

    xo, Allison



  • Morgantown Rising Tide Society


    Happy Wednesday everyone!

    Yesterday was my favorite day of the month. It’s on the first Tuesday of each month that I get the privilege to meet with a wonderful group of creatives in the Morgantown area to discuss various business topics and ideas. Each time I leave the meeting feeling the spark in my creative heart flicker again and I’m full of excited energy (and good food)! Some days I just get in a slump with my ideas and can’t help questioning myself and thinking “Why the heck am I doing this?!” I think we all get discouraged and feel like what we are doing isn’t enough or doesn’t make sense, but it’s meeting with a group of (mostly) ladies who have the same feelings as I do that makes me feel like I am exactly where I am supposed to be with my business. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE what I do, but some days I’d rather curl up on the couch with a pint of ice cream and just watch Fixer Upper all day!

    Cheers to fresh ideas and a creative spark as I dive into two new invitation designs this week!